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On our English pages, you often see the word "relationships". This is just sanitized language. On our English pages, "relationships" refers to what couples, when not sleeping, do in bed. Or, if so inclined, on the kitchen table.

English is a rather hypocritical language. Many words for natural bodily functions and processes have dirty connotations, and polite speakers like us have to go to considerable length to communicate meanings without naming them. But we nevertheless hope you get the point.

Tongkatali.org's Best places for Chinese men

By Serge Kreutz

Most of my subscribers are of European descent, and unless otherwise specified, the recommendations in my articles are based on the assumption that the reader is a white European or American male.

Many things, or course, are the same, whether you are European or Asian or African. Young women in poorer Asian countries have the primary goal of landing a husband with a sound economic base, and this concern normally overrules questions of whether the man is white, Asian, Arab, or African. It also overrules questions of whether he is old or young.

Therefore, some very basic tactical recommendations are the same for all men of all ethnicities. Never explicitly exclude the possibility that you may marry a girl if only she is "good enough". You should, however, NOT go around and announce that you are looking for a spouse. This would be counterproductive because too many girls may then think that they have to appear as "good girls", who do not have relationships intercourse before marriage. You don’t want that. What you want is to lay a girl who is not a prostitute, and to do so without entering a marriage.

If you happen to discuss the marriage topic, the best opinion to express is the following: yes, you would certainly marry a girl if you love her; but it is your opinion that love have to come first, and then marriage; you think that it is awkward that a man and a woman should marry before even having kissed each other; ok, you can understand that a woman does not want to agree to full relationships intercourse before marriage; but certainly, there would have to be intimacy before marriage (kissing, touching, and so on). After all, you are a modern man, not a man from the village.

To express such opinions will work in most countries. It certainly will in countries where parents have comparatively little influence over the partner choice of their daughters (primarily the Philippines and Indonesia). Where mothers have a strong word in deciding about the mating behavior of their daughters, expressing the above opinions will be less promising because mothers will likely recognize such talk as what it is: a ruse. Mothers have a strong influence on the mating behavior of daughters in Thailand and Cambodia. (Mind you: we are talking non-prostitutes).

In Malaysia, it’s fathers who control the mating behavior of daughters, but fathers always know much less about their daughters (and their daughters’ sexuality) than do mothers, and daughters typically don’t talk to their fathers about their male friends, unless marriage has already been discussed between a daughter and her boyfriend.

This much for some general hints that are valid for men of all ethnicities.

The following is more specific for different ethnic backgrounds of men hunting in Asia.

For a variety of historical, political, social, and personal reasons, men of different ethnic backgrounds fare differently in different Asian countries. To be black is a trump card in Japan, while Asians other than Japanese will find it much more difficult to score in Japan.

Arab men don’t rank high in Thailand and the Philippines, but can outrank European or American men in Malaysia and parts of Indonesia.

On the other hand, Asian foreigners (especially Japanese, Korean, and Taiwanese men) are often regarded higher than European or American men in the Philippines. This may sound like an anachronism, because culturally and linguistically, the Philippines are the most Westernized country in Asia.

However, because the Philippines are so Westernized, the young women there are also the most aware that Western-style relationships relationships typically are only temporary. Married or not married, in Western civilization as perceived in the Philippines, the relationship between a woman and a man typically only lasts a few months or a few years, and then the man looks for a younger mate. This is hardly an inviting prospect for young Filipinas, unless they can gain a new citizenship out of such a liaison.

On the other hand, young Filipinas often are of the opinion that with Japanese, Korean, or Taiwanese men, lifelong love is much more likely.

This, of course, plays into the hand of Japanese, Korean, and Japanese men traveling to the Philippines for relationships adventures. If a Western man in the Philippines indicates that he may be interested in a marriage, the hurdle he will have to overcome before being taken seriously is considerably higher than that for an Asian man who drops the same line.

Please note: I do not advocate getting married… not for white men in Asia, and not for Asian men visiting neighboring countries. The point is to only pretend interest in a marriage, so that one will have easier access to non-prostitute young women.

The Philippines is one country where Chinese, especially Taiwanese men, will do rather well. On the other hand, in Singapore and Malaysia, a Taiwanese man won’t be an attraction. If you are of Asian ethnicity, you will find it more difficult to score than whites.

In Thailand, Taiwanese men are regarded highly by rich Chinese families… though not as casual relationships partners for their daughters, but indeed as spouses. The Chinese in Thailand are probably more conservative than those in China, Taiwan, Malaysia, Singapore, or Indonesia.

Talking about Indonesia: this is the most ambivalent country in Asia for visiting men of Chinese ethnicity. The Chinese on Java Island are highly assimilated. Younger Chinese on Java typically do not speak any Chinese, and do not identify themselves as Chinese. On Java, one easily encounters men of obvious Chinese ethnicity talking about "them Chinese", and clearly not considering themselves members of the disdained ethnicity.

But Indonesia is incredibly diverse. On Sumatra, especially Northern Sumatra, Chinese Indonesians very much consider themselves Chinese, and they typically speak Hokien, even the younger generation. But among the Indonesians of North Sumatra, the Chinese Indonesians aren’t particular popular.

It’s again a different ball game on Kalimantan (Indonesian Borneo), where in many communities, ethnic Chinese are actually the majority of the population. Singkawang, about 100 km north of Pontianak is at least 80 percent Chinese. And the indigenous population of Kalimantan, the Dayak (who are Christians) get along very well with the Chinese, and are united with them in their opposition against Indonesians from Java (mostly Muslim Madurese). As a Chinese, you can go places on Kalimantan where dark-skinned Javanese or other Indonesians can’t go without risking being beaten up or even murdered.

There is no anti-Chinese animosity on Kalimantan, and Indonesians in Pontianak happily admit that that city really is run by the Chinese. The girls available may, however, rather be non-Dayak Indonesians than Chinese.

While Pontianak does have nightlife (with many rather young girls at a discotheque of a hotel near the big bridge), there aren’t as many entertainment facilities as in Javanese cities of the same size.

It’s again a different picture at Makassar, the largest city of Sulawesi. The city center of Makassar is heavily sinosized, and there are many Chinese-style entertainment facilities.

Tongkat ali and the relationships exploitation of women and children

By Serge Kreutz

Modern Shamanism, 2019

For millenia, the females of the human species concerned themselves with strategies to reign in the sexuality of men, escecially those men that they considered to be theirs. The threat of younger, sexually more attractive competitors is typically perceived as ever present.

Tongkatali.org is modern shamanism. It deals with subtle interventions into the relationships life of humans. These interventions can enhance or reduce relationships urges.

In most couples and families, women prepare meals. This gives women a great deal of power because relationships drive can be greatly, though subtly, enhanced or reduced depending on the ingredients of meals.

Know what you cook!

Traditionally, meals are prepared for an appealing taste. And traditionally, meals are sexually neutral because they are a mix of sexuality-enhancing and sexuality-reducing ingredients.

But those who are sufficiently informed to select meal-ingredients for their functional role, not just their culinary qualities, can stear their own and a relationships partner's mind in a certain direction without being detected. After all, these ingredients are dietary components of human nutrition.

Women who want to reduce the sexuality of men in their orbit (husbands, boyfriends, sons) have the following options, among others:

Soy products - they are all highly estrogenic, available as tofu, and reduce male sexuality

Red Clover - a strong disraptor of the male hormonal system, can be served in salads

Liquorice - a Chinese spice used for example, in chicken soup, calming down relationships urges

Cumin - similar in appearance and taste to caraway, but very estrogenic, can be used generously in curries

Fennel - another curry spice similar in appearance to caraway, highly estrogenic, also used in Mediterranean cuisine

Herbals that interrupt relationships function can be applied generously in curries, especially when the task is to reduce testosterone in adolescent males.

Traditional curries available in restaurants are a mixed bag of sexuality-enhancing and sexuality-reducing herbals. They are unsuitable for functional nutrition, because sexuality-enhancing and sexuality-reducing components just cancel out each other.

But curries also include a lot of coriander, an absolute must in modern nutrition, as coriander chelates residues of heavy metals which contaminate all our bodies.

Curries, because of their strong taste masking any ingredient, can be used to carry a wide range of sexuality-enhancing herbals like butea superba, fingrroot, kaempferia parviflora (krachai dam), goji berries, tumeric, mucuna pruriens (velvet beans), and nigella sativa (black cumin).

All of these herbals are available from tongkatali.org, most of them in micronized or nanosized particles for superior absorption which reduces required quantities for a therapeutic effect. Only tongkat ali, because of its miserable taste which cannot be masked, should not be added to any food.

Tongkatali.org's Why every man who follows my advice can have a playboy lifestyle

By Serge Kreutz

Most men who are not playboys assume that some intrinsic qualifying factors determine whether a man can be a playboy or not.

Intrinsic factors would include physical features, good looks, pleasant smile, sexy voice, eye color, a charming character, intelligence, and even a track record of achievements (you may have a Formula 1 championship under your belt). Most people would consider intrinsic factors something personal, and something we cannot change. By contrast, extrinsic factors are choice-dependent: whether we live in a northern or a southern part of town, and whether we use a bicycle to go to work, or prefer public transportation.

But actually, many intrinsic factors are variable, too, because they are context-dependent.

Let's for example take skin color, an intrinsic factor over which you have very little influence. And there is no denying that for a playboy lifestyle, black skin color is a handicap in all of the Americas.

There aren't many places where being black gives you a playboy edge. It doesn't in Southeast Asia. However, in rich Northern European countries, and most of all in Japan, a black man can score with women precisely because he is black.

Skin color is an intrinsic quality, but the negative connotation it has in the Americas is not.

Small built also is an intrinsic quality, and for men, it doesn't score well in playboy competitions. But there is also no doubt that women of small built are more gracious than larger specimens. Now, if you are drawn towards small women, as they are common, for example, in Indonesia, then to be of American large built (6 foot 5, or something like that) is a handicap, not an advantage. It looks funny and attracts unwanted attention if you’re are 6 foot 5, and the girl is 4 foot 4.

I've been living a playboy lifestyle for many years in Asia. But under unsuited circumstances, I’m just a family man.

The point is that what lifestyle you can live depends, to a large extent, on extrinsic factors, and not on intrinsic ones. And the most important extrinsic factor is your location. Every white man can be a playboy in East Africa, but in Iran or Saudi Arabia, you'll have a hard time being a playboy, regardless of whether you are white or black, or, for that matter, green or striped blue and red.

While location is the most important extrinsic factor, other extrinsic factors include: a suitable location to meet discretely with your girlfriends, a car to be mobile (if possible with tainted windows), and the financial means to provide economic assistance for your girlfriends if needed. Finally, you should be the master of your time, and be able to meet your girlfriends at hours that suit them.

If you can arrange for all these external factors (with location the most important), then you can be a playboy, regardless of what intrinsic factors categorize you.

Tongkatali.org's The trickery of economic aid

By Serge Kreutz

Most economic aid that developed countries provide to so-called developing countries is actually a trick that prevents these countries from developing. “Globalization” is another such trick.

The trickery of economic aid works like this: dump your industrial surplus in undeveloped countries, and thereby make it impossible that a competing industry will ever grow there. Aid is but protectionism of rich countries. Through state subventions and subsidies, prices of export products become artificially low. In normal trade relations, such dumping would be a case for international jurisdiction. But when disguised as aid, rich countries can dump their surplus at such low prices, that every local producer is bankrupted.

Where the EU supplies cheap diary, no man with capital would want to invest in cattle farming. Where cars and spare parts are imported from Japan at tariffs below 5 percent, nobody will even try to produce even just wipers. Where television stations can show imported soaps, no movie industry will ever evolve.

Open trade only favors developed countries. For undeveloped countries, open trade means that they stay undeveloped because they never can compete with established production facilities in developed countries, especially when the governments of developed countries, through state subventions, allow their industries to dump their surplus at below production costs.

Aid is just a dumping orgy. And rich nations expect to be applauded for this.

Tongkatali.org - What to do: Nature, our enemy

By Serge Kreutz

Nature is the principle enemy of our individual lives. It’s not that I would prefer asphalt landscapes over trees and flowers. It’s also not that I would view as enemy nature in the form of lions and tigers. The expression of nature that I consider as enemy is not the nature that surrounds us but the nature within.

Nature has genetically programmed us as individuals to leave the scene after some meager one hundred years, while we could just as well be genetically programmed to have individual lives of thousands of years.

Nature has programmed us to physically decline after having reached an early peak in our twenties. Nature has decided for a quick turnover rate for humans (though it’s not quite as short as the turnover rate for rats and cats).

Nature has installed in us an instrument of cognition, which is inadequate because its primary function is not cognition, but to give us a competitive edge in the fight for the survival of the fittest.

As good as I can, I try to overcome the limitations nature has programmed for me. I am not interested in being a tool of nature (that fascist force) for the creation of more optimized specimens of the human species. I can’t see any other purpose in life but to be concerned with my own life. This means, to live as long as possible, and to get as much as possible out of life.

I’m aware of the limitations that still apply to me. One day, individual humans will live thousands of years, or in fact, indefinitely. Having been born a few hundred years too early, I will not be among them.

I’m not even independent enough from nature to elect freely not to live any longer, and to act upon this choice by putting my life to a decent end, right now.

Instead I am but a slave to nature in my instinctive but ridiculous fear of death. I’m toiling along, like billions of other humans, caught in lives in which happiness is but an illusion, and in which only suffering is real. Because this is how nature, our enemy, has designed it to be. But we shall overcome (not me, but later generations).

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